Rediscover You Free Motivational Talks

Rediscover Yourself and Win Fantastic Prizes!!!!

Who doesn’t love free stuff right! When you attend my FREE motivational workshops on the Sunny Coast in September 2018 you also go in the draw to WIN…$375 worth of prizes!!!

• Mind, Body & Soul 1 day Workshop at ‘The Farm’ Meridan Plains on 11/11/18
• Paperback copy of ‘Thrive as a Woman AND Mother’
• ‘Find Your Happy, Positive & Empowered Self’ MindPT session
• Guided Rainforest Meditation CD & MP3 Audio version

Valued at $375

To secure your spot book NOW as all venues all booking up fast and the organisers start promoting it next week, which I’m told book out completely not long after that. Click on the link below to book at a venue closest to you!!!…/H…/Rediscover-You

Revive your zest for life, boost your energy and vitality and REDISCOVER…

• Your sense of self.
• Your inner power, passion & purpose
• Boosted confidence, self-esteem & personal fulfilment
• What ignites that fire in your belly
• An empowered mindset and belief system to bring your hopes & dreams into reality

It’s your time to shine!!!

8 Week Positive Daily Rituals Challenge

The Powerful Tool
to a Happier, Positive & Empowered You!

The ‘Positive Daily Rituals’ and Reminders in this 8-Week Challenge will empower you to transform the way you think and feel, improve your zest for life, along with your confidence and drive to create the life and future you want and love on every level!

You will have more energy, feel happier, more positive and personally fulfilled, with a deep sense of inner peace and improved health and well-being while alleviating depression, stress & anxiety.

In 2011, I suffered from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, where I spiralled into a deep depression with severe anxiety, stress, panic attacks & phobias for up to 12 months.

This not only sucked the joy out of my life, it also affected every aspect of it. Including my state of mind, health, relationships and my overall wellbeing on all levels, physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually…especially my health.

The sequence of ‘Positive Daily Rituals’ I’ve put together to create this challenge are what truly helped me transform my life, when I was at my lowest and darkest time. I’ve added an extra one, which I didn’t know about back then, but has made a significant difference in my life now since discovering it and it will for you too!

As a mother, we can also sometimes lose our sense of self because we’re so busy looking after everyone else’s wants and needs. In the process, we forget about our own wants and needs on a personal level and how important it is, to also make time to nurture our own body, mind & souls! Remember, it’s ok to make yourself a priority too and you are worthy and deserving to experience what it feels like to find your sense of self and feel peace within.

These ‘Positive Daily Rituals’ were the keys to bringing me out of the darkness and into the light again. When practised on a regular basis, these ‘Positive Daily Rituals’ & Reminders will positively transform your life, along with the way you think and feel about yourself, as well as how you view your world!

Would you like to :-

  • Alleviate depression, stress or anxiety
  • Be a fitter, healthier and more vibrant version of yourself
  • Have more energy & vitality with a zest for life
  • Boost your positivity and increase your confidence, self-esteem and belief in yourself
  • Feel a deep sense of happiness, fulfilment, peace and contentment
  • Feel like you can conquer the world and cope with whatever life throws at you?

By investing up to one hour of your time each day, to do these ‘Positive Daily Rituals’ and Reminders, in this 8-Week “Positive Daily Rituals” Challenge, I guarantee you will be on your way to positively transforming your life & well-being on all levels. You will alleviate stress & anxiety, increase your energy & vitality, boost your positivity and cope better with whatever life throws at you.

They’ll also assist you in maintaining a positive mindset and belief system to live a life you love on all levels, help you to achieve what you want, improve your health and wellbeing, increase your happiness and fulfilment and enrich your life!

Click on the link below to download your FREE 8-Week 'Positive Daily Rituals' Challenge!

To be a part of a supportive community to give you encouragement throughout your Challenge join the 8-Week Positive Daily Rituals Challenge Facebook community!

Imagine Being Able to Over-Ride Your Analytical & Critical Mind!

Wouldn’t it be nice to stop that negative self-talk and mind chatter that causes self-doubt, fear, anxiety and tells you that you’re not good enough or you can’t do something! What’s an AMAZING GIFT that would be!

The truth is YOU CAN…Positively transform your life and well-being and thrive as a woman and mother with the ability to over-ride your analytical & critical mind.

Through an extremely POWERFUL personal change tool via the Positive Prime platform using Mind Power Technology, that is based on the latest in proven positive psychology and neuroscience. You'll find my session there called, 'Find Your Happy, Positive & Empowered Self'

It’s effortless, effective and takes only a few minutes a day to produce outstanding results!

Watching these stunning images and positive belief statements, for ONLY 3 minutes a day…

They will improve your mindset, mood and energy for up to 6-8 hours and assist you in achieving what you want faster & more effectively.

Perfect for busy mums as it’s effortless, relaxing and time efficient. What’s UNIQUE and so ASTOUNDING about this technology is that…

When you watch a positive prime session at the faster speeds…8, 9 or 10, you OVER-RIDE YOUR ANALYTICAL AND CRITICAL MIND, instilling new positive beliefs aligned with the things you want to learn, change, improve, succeed or excel in, creating new positive neural pathways.

It’s recommended that you watch them at the slower speeds first though before watching them faster, to emotionally connect and engage with what you’re seeing.

I’ve created a Positive Prime session called ‘Find Your Happy, Positive & Empowered Self', that you can watch anytime you like 24/7.

Imagine having the CONFIDENCE and BELIEF in yourself that absolutely anything is possible, along with the courage to conquer any limiting beliefs, fears, anxieties or self-doubt AND…

Coming out the other side feeling completely EMPOWERED and DRIVEN to take action, with joy in your heart and the confidence & determination to create the life and future you want and love.

Ignite that fire in your belly, awaken your inner passion & power within and turn your hopes and dreams into reality…TRANSFORMING your life & well-being on every level.

Live a meaningful life that sparkles with POSITIVITY, LOVE, PASSION AND ABSOLUTE HAPPINESS. Step into your power & radiate your inner beauty, passion and enthusiasm for life!

To get my Positive Prime session 'Find Your Happy, Positive & Empowered Self' for FREE :-

Register your free account by going to
On home page select login and then click sign up
Fill out your details and use referral code : Melita-133 to get my session for FREE
To select your additional free session using the 120 credits you'll receive..
Go to Shop sessions and click on blue search button on the right
Then select the session you want to add to your library of sessions in your Positive Prime account

Once you've registered your free account on your computer/laptop you will see a button, asking you if you want to watch this via App and you will be given instructions on how to install and download the Positive Prime App on your mobile/smart phone device.

Then make yourself a cuppa, put your feet up as you sit back and watch these stunning images and positive belief statements as part of your daily routine, to instil new positive beliefs and to feel consistently uplifted, inspired and empowered in as little as 3 minutes a day.

Imagine having the CONFIDENCE and BELIEF in yourself that absolutely anything is possible, along with the courage to conquer any limiting beliefs, fears, anxieties or self-doubt AND…

Coming out the other side feeling completely EMPOWERED and DRIVEN to take action, with joy in your heart and the confidence & determination to create the life and future you want and love.

Ignite that fire in your belly, awaken your inner passion & power within and turn your hopes and dreams into reality…TRANSFORMING your life & well-being on every level.

Live a meaningful life that sparkles with POSITIVITY, LOVE, PASSION AND ABSOLUTE HAPPINESS. Step into your power & radiate your inner beauty, passion and enthusiasm for life!

Are you a bucket filler or dipper?

A bucket and a spade on a sandy beach with the ocean in the background on a sunny day.

Our gorgeous 7-year-old son and his friend were having a discussion a couple of years ago, where they were talking about how a friend at kindy said something unkind about someone else. They referred to that person as a bucket dipper and were saying how they wanted to be bucket fillers.

They starting talking about, how much they cared for each other and saying things like, “You’re my best friend and I love playing with you, is your bucket getting full?” The other replied with, “Yes my buckets’ getting very full, you’re such a good friend, you’re the best, am I filling your bucket?”

They both went on to say how much they loved being bucket fillers and didn’t want to be bucket dippers, in the meantime melting my heart with their cuteness. I had no idea what they were talking about until they explained a concept they’d learnt at kindy called ‘Bucket Filling’.

What a beautiful thing to learn and grasp the concept of at such a young age and to use it down the track months later. They certainly filled my bucket up, with their deep understanding of behaviours and how they can affect other people and themselves.

They explained that we all have an ‘Invisible Bucket’ and when you say nice things to people you fill their bucket up. When you say mean things to people that’s called a bucket dipper. When you’re nasty, unkind or make someone feel bad, you’re stealing and taking from their bucket. When you are kind and say nice things that make people feel good, then you’re filling their bucket up.

The original concept allegedly started in the 1960’s by Dr. Donald O Clifton who also wrote books about it. The idea refers to positive attributes as being filled with love, joy, wisdom and faith in a movement that’s had a positive effect on many people’s lives for decades. How we feel or behave depends on how full or how empty our buckets are.

When it comes to resolving conflict, or talking to someone about something important without hurting their feelings, you could use this concept to think before you speak, for example by asking yourself first, “If I say it this way, would that be bucket dipping or bucket filling and is there another way I could say it, to ensure I was filling their bucket rather than dipping from it?”

Especially if that someone’s bucket is near empty. One little comment or remark could tip them over emotionally and completely empty their bucket in an instant. None of us are aware of how full or empty anyone else’s bucket is.

Just by thinking for a moment first about what you want to say or do, and whether it’s going to be bucket dipping or bucket filling, allows you to consciously act, speak and behave with awareness.

The bucket filling concept could be used as a moral compass for all forms of communication, thoughts and behaviours with yourself and others. It also enables us to understand how we can learn to consciously communicate with others in a positive manner.

Source Written by Melita Vlatko-Rulo Jan 2017

Feeling stressed and craving inner peace?

Do you feel out of balance? Would you like the ability to control your stress levels? Do you have trouble sleeping because your mind will not stop? If you answered yes to any of the above, meditation may be for you. Imagine feeling calm and centred with a clear, focused mind.

Meditation has been practised for thousands of years and has been proven to help many people in various aspects of their lives. Holistic healing expert Ron Wilding, who has practised meditation daily for about 60 years, believes that 10-15 minutes of meditation can be equivalent to 2-3 hours of sleep. He claims this is due to your brain wave frequency slowing down to the alpha/theta levels, whilst in a meditative state.

It is in these brain wave frequencies that healing takes place, the body rejuvenates itself and your imagination and memory is enhanced along with your creative abilities. Stress dissipates in this state of mind leaving you feeling calm, peaceful and relaxed.

There are four brain wave levels, beta, alpha, theta and delta. Beta is a conscious state of mind, whilst alpha, theta and delta are altered states of consciousness in the subconscious mind. Children function mostly in the alpha, theta and delta levels, whilst adults function mainly in beta.

In beta the brain wave frequency occurs at 14-30 cycles per second, the fastest of all levels. In this state our nervous system is active, awake and busy. Stress generally occurs at this level. The alpha level is 8-13 cycles per second. Theta is 4-7 cycles per second and delta which occurs in adults whilst sleeping is the slowest brain wave level, at 1-5 cycles per second.

If you have never meditated before, you may want to check out my 9-minute and 30-minute 'Guided Rainforest Meditation' CD available in hardcopy and MP3 Audio versions here from as little as $10. You will also find groups that run meditation classes in your local paper or you may want to go on a meditation retreat.

A retreat to check out is the Vipassana Centre, which is situated in every state. The centre is a non-profit organisation, which runs three and 10 day courses, with no set fee for accommodation, donations only with the vegetarian meals included in your stay. Expenses are met through donations given by students. For details go to or phone (07) 5485 2452.

Another centre is Chenrezig Institute, which is situated at Eudlo on the Sunshine Coast. Here you can stay as long as you like, with day and weekend courses on offer. Accommodation is from $25 p/night for a motel room and up to $60 p/night for a fully self contained cabin. Meals can be purchased from the on-site cafe.

Chenrezig Institute is less structured compared to Vipassana. You can do as little or as much meditation as you like, in the tranquil surroundings of one of the largest Tibetan Buddhist Centres in the western world. You can communicate or socialise with other guests except when you are in the mediation hall.

At Vipassana, if you think you are going for a holiday you are mistaken. It is an inner journey of the self where you do not talk to anyone for 10 days and meditate for approximately 10 hours a day.

I have experienced both centres and thoroughly recommend them. My Vipassana experience was deeper as the meditation and course structure was more intensive, disciplined and internalised. At the end of the course, I felt I could achieve anything with a true sense of detachment to the outcome of anything and just being present in each moment.

The experience is like watching a movie of your life, where things you thought you had dealt with come to the surface to be released. The aim though, is to simply observe these feelings or sensations no matter how pleasant or unpleasant and without being attached to, or craving a certain outcome or sensation. This training of the mind helps you deal with situations that surface in your everyday life.

Meditation retreats are like an un-cluttering or spring clean of the body, mind and soul. Spending time in nature with kangaroos, ducks and other wildlife, you cannot help but feel a deep sense of peace within and an affinity with nature. A truly empowering experience!

I have created a beautiful meditation cd just for you called, ‘Guided Rainforest Meditation’. You will experience profound shifts in the way you think and feel. Inducing a sense of inner peace and tranquillity along with the ability to cope better with whatever life throws at you. Go to the products store to check it out!